in these modern times, it is necessary to get rid of stereotypes and embrace the idea that the gender you identify doesn’t wholly define your likes and dislikes. It’s almost shameful, that we still need to act like men don’t like to cuddle just as much as anyone else. They love it and here’s why.
1. Fires Up Their Protective Instincts
Amongst other things, cuddling with their partners makes men feel like they’re protecting them. Holding the other person satisfies the instinct that pushes them to protect their partner in all situations. You can’t deny that being wrapped up in someone else’s arms gives you a feeling of being protected and safe.
2. Contributes To Their Partner’s Happiness
If you love cuddling and your boyfriend loves you, then he’ll do it because he knows that it is something that makes you light up from the inside. While it may get a little uncomfortable for them after a while, they’ll still cuddle you because you look happy and content when they do it.
3. Feeling Of Closeness
Physical intimacy is important in a romantic relationship and just like sex, cuddling allows you to feel closer to your partner. Men like it because it gives both of you a sense of intimacy. Also, cuddling can give you a greater sense of vulnerability and openness with your partner than making love at times.
4. Makes Him Feel Like A Man
Contrary to popular notions, needing a good cuddle doesn’t make you weak. When a person has been having a bad time and is in need of a boost in their self-confidence, they turn to those they’re close to in order to pull themselves out of their sorrow. Sometimes when your boyfriend wants to cuddle, it’s because he’s been having difficulties and being held by you makes him feel much better about himself.
5. No Reason To Hide
The world expects men to always put on a brave face and stick to a misconceived notion of ‘manliness’ even when they’re going through tough times. At the end of the day, when you’re holding your boyfriend in your arms, he may finally be able to cast aside that mask and reveal his true feelings.