1. Spending habits. You should not be his mother and buy him everything he needs. If he does not experience financial difficulties and you continue living together it is time to change something.
2. Benefits. Every relationship is a partnership. So, both of you should have benefits in your relationship. You should not be a housekeeper to make your partner happy.
3. Grown up money. He does not offer financial support in difficult situations.
4. No one to turn to. You can not rely on your partner. If this happens your relationship is dead.
5. Stressful living. You can not talk about your feelings or your worries to him. He does not support you.